Just watching “The Great Hack” you’ll be able to manage my digital footprint and I dare say you’ve predicted the outcome already and was the one seeking to deviate my crusade, plausible if not accurate.

 

Cambridge Analytica is the scapegoat the documentary the conviction that it was the company and all that has gone away with its demise. 

 

But it hasn’t Alex for we both know due to your acknowledgment and silence you understand the implications of the trauma and the nervous system damage and how the Trump administration has leverage due to secrets on the democrats 

 

Short time loss … long term gain.

 

The fake news committee was a fake inquiry. 

 

Alex, what have you done. 

 

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On 31 Mar 2022, at 07:47, Damian Langiano <damianlangiano@gmail.com> wrote:
 



Dear Alexander ….. 

 

I hope this finds you well and you’ve calmed down after the “mis-information” regarding the phone hack - see attached pictures of open and then blocked WhatsApp and blue tick comms 

 

As I stated, one must wonder what you have to hide on that device and who you’re hiding it with / from 

 

Now, as I see it and as detailed in our exchanges my approach both previously has always been supportive and understanding of the issues you had faced and how you could repair and reconcile the “inadvertent” issues you’d created. 

 

As we can see from the WhatsApp log you recognise the problem and offered to help … 

 

With the mental health of some 500m children on the line one must enquire as to what you would consider more “important” than their nervous system stability and internal composition of a slave bound existence. 

 

I’ve added Richard Grannon’s expert analysis and Mrs Adams broader perspective to substantiate my allegations of a crime against humanity. 

 

Now given you’ve previous and the narcissist needing a scape goat … your position of being the man who “broke the internet” does present the argument for you to be the fall guy once again and to be very frank with you. It very much does work for me and my next step, however I remain convinced you are the best man for our job and for that reason you get one more chance, one no man on this earth would afford you and one only a higher divinity would “do so”

 

Please note your worst nightmares reside in my soul so please be advised to consider your next step as I am here to protect the children and global population your dis-information has exposed and your face on a wanted poster as said scapegoat will be the salvation of every narcissist responsible. 

 

Enjoy your coffee, we’ve an imaginary algorithm to blame….and not the victims your actions and the subsequent digital ripples have traumatised. 

 

 

 

 

https://www.instagram.com/tv/Cbq2ZZYKfuw/?utm_medium=copy_link

 

 

Gemini Adams 

When. We have a media that stops pitting people against each other for no good reason, other than it activates our dopamine centers like a drug and helps them sell “advertising” space - as click throughs, to products we rarely need.

When we have leaders who understand that skin colour and gender are rarely the root issue of the core relational problems we endure, but rather the underlying trauma responses that run amock inside our being, dictating our stress, survive or (inability) to thrive response; having us react, rather than respond to every single thing in our lives, stealing our ability to co-create peace and unity.

When we have a world that stops “getting-off” on the misfortune of others, resulting in countless (often wasted) hours of scrolling, consuming, debating and gossiping, rather then collectively looking at how an event mirrors our own unprocessed pain, and recognising that we are in projection, and need the help of others to heal.

When our leaders acknowledge that “education” should not be focused entirely on learning facts that can easily be attained via Google, but that the system could indeed provide us with the essential life-skills our parents were unable to teach us - such as emotional regulation and authentic, non-violent communication - which they also did not learn from their traumatized parents, then we can co-create compassionate curiosity and deep understanding for each other’s pain and “bad” behaviours. and create a new reality.

When we listen to those who fully understand the life-long, multi-generational impact of trauma, we will better comprehend the enormity of the task ahead, in order to achieve the “season of healing” that is required of humanity, right now.

As Dr. Melissa DeBose Hankins, a psychiatrist, writes of the most remembered moment of these Oscars…

This altercation between Rock and Smith is what the result of unresolved trauma looks like.

What many of us witnessed during last night’s Academy Award ceremony between Will Smith and Chris Rock was a TRAUMA RESPONSE.  

While I am in no way condoning violence, I think this is a very public and very important opportunity for us to all understand what a trauma response can look like.

A trauma response can take many forms (some surprising) and look like:

Slapping someone for saying “the wrong” thing

Yelling at someone for not doing something “fast enough” or “up to your standards”

Avoiding or not responding to a boss’s emails about scheduling an upcoming performance review

“Having to” do everything “perfectly,” otherwise you feel anxious or unsettled in some way

Yelling at staff or throwing things around your office or OR when you feel frustrated or have a bad outcome at work

Not setting boundaries around your time and energy because you’re worried about confrontation and upsetting the other person 

Working endless hours without taking time for yourself or the things and people you enjoy because your job is your primary source and measure of your own self-worth and value 

When a person has experienced trauma (“Big T” trauma or “Little t”trauma) from their childhood (or, their adulthood), the brain and body store that traumatic memory in ways such that aspects of that memory can be re-activated by present-day interactions and situations.  

When this happens, the person experiencing this re-activation is split-second processing (on a subconscious or unconscious level) the current event through the filter of that past trauma.  This means that that person is, for all meaningful purposes, experiencing things as if they are right back in that previous circumstance of trauma.  As a result, they are reacting (taking action)—emotionally, physically, and/or verbally—from that place of trauma.

Those past traumas can be diverse and range from:

Witnessing a parent being physically or verbally abused during your childhood

You, yourself, experiencing physical, sexual, or verbal abuse in your childhood or adulthood

Experiencing emotional abuse or neglect as a child 

Being harshly reprimanded (this could include being spoken to by someones with an angry tone and demeanor) or shamed by others as a child for not doing a task “the right way” or not doing it “well enough”

Being told (and, perhaps, punished) as a child by an adult caregiver that it’s not polite and/or not acceptable to say “No” when an adult tells you to do something (including getting hugs from relatives, being made to attend events with your parents even when it’s clear your parents really didn’t want to go)

Being called out by a teacher in front of the class for having the wrong answer and feeling embarrassment and shame

While some of the above may be horrific, and other things may seem inconsequential, depending on the age of occurrence, the emotional, mental, and physical resources that person had at that age, as well as any prior traumas could determine the extent to which that person experienced trauma.  A 2 year-old accidentally wandering into a closet with a door that shuts behind them that they can’t easily open, plunging them alone in darkness for 15 minutes before someone finds them is a far different experience than that of an adult in the same predicament.

In the case of Will Smith, he detailed in his autobiographical book, “Will,” that he witnessed trauma as a child in the form of violence at home.  In his book he writes:

“When I was nine years old, I watched my father punch my mother in the side of the head so hard that she collapsed,” he wrote. “I saw her spit blood. That moment in that bedroom, probably more than any other moment in my life, has defined who I am.”

“Within everything that I have done since then — the awards and accolades, the spotlights and attention, the characters and the laughs — there has been a subtle string of apologies to my mother for my inaction that day. For failing her in the moment. For failing to stand up to my father. For being a coward.”

So, while the “joke” Chris Rock said was about Will’s wife, the fact that she was being targeted in combination with the look on her face (signaling to Will her level of upset and distress about what was said), triggered a split-second accessing of (and instantly being placed inside of that) memory to an earlier time when he was 9yo and wasn’t able to protect his mom (the woman he loved).  

Will’s reaction last night was that of that 9yo traumatized little boy who simply reacted in the way that 9yo boy wanted to react back then.

Does having a history of trauma (big or little) give a “free pass” for the present-day trauma reactions that involve the harming (physically, verbally, or emotionally) of another?  No, of course not.

However, it does highlight the extreme importance of understanding trauma and it’s many manifestations, and addressing it with effective trauma-informed approaches that address the emotional, physical (because we hold emotions in our body), and mental aspects of trauma.  

Hopefully, rather than simply vilify Will, and say he has “an anger problem,” people close to him can help him recognize that this is “A TRAUMA PROBLEM,” and help him get the trauma-informed help in the form of therapy in combination with modalities as EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques, or “tapping”), EMDR, or other somatic modalities that can effectively and efficiently release the traumatized aspects held in his memory and body.  

Once his trauma and his emotions are no longer dictating his actions, he could have a much more measured and effective response to situations such as that that occurred at last night awards ceremony.

My further hope is that if anyone reading this finds that they are stuck in patterns of extreme reaction (such as Will experienced), or even less severe reactions, but you recognize are getting in the way of you living life the way you really want, please consider getting trauma-informed support.

Even if you’ve not experienced “Big T” trauma, ALL of us have experienced various “little T” traumas that have impacted each of us in various ways personally and/or professionally—some with mild behaviors and impacts, some not so mild.  

As physicians, we are masterful at suppressing so many of our emotions, and the thoughts and memories associated with them.  However, trauma has a way of impacting us in great big obvious ways (as we saw with Will Smith), and not such obvious ways (perfectionism, workaholism, lack of boundaries).  

I’m not suggesting any of us go unearthing swaths of past trauma (please don’t do this unless you are working with a trauma-informed individual).  

Simply be aware that it may be impacting you in ways you recognize and have yet to address, or in ways you never quite thought of as being associated with trauma.  And, if needed, allow yourself to get the support you need by working with a trauma-informed therapist, trauma-informed coach, or other trauma-informed practitioner/modality.

Plus this 

 

 

Confirms your position, as you confirmed verbally and correctly so, the best man to do this. 

 

You’ve nothing to lose … no one does, only everything to gain 

 

Best wishes 

 

Damian 

 

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Yes, 1717 is an Angel Number and seeing it a favourable omen that indicates that you may be on the path to achieving your goals. Angel number 1717 tells you that you have an essential life and soul mission to complete.

 

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